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		<title>The &#8220;D&#160;Word&#8221;</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Apr 2010 07:42:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sean Stephenson</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This video is about something we all do: We are in denial about certain things in our lives, and we deny that we're going through them because it's easier to put them off in our mind. We say things like "I'll get around to that later, or that's not that bad, not that big of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This video is about something <span style="text-decoration: underline;">we all do</span>:</p>
<p>We are in denial about certain things in our lives, and we deny that we're going through them because it's easier to put them off in our mind. We say things like "I'll get around to that later, or that's not that bad, not that big of a deal."</p>
<p><strong>Denial is a dangerous thing.</strong></p>
<p><strong>*Warning*</strong>: I'm going to really push on you in this video... no more Mr. Nice Guy <img src='http://www.livingatcause.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p><a href="http://www.livingatcause.com/blog/523/the-d-word/"><em>Click here to view the embedded video.</em></a></p>
<p>What I want you to do is get real, sit down after this video, and write out in a journal entry: What are you in denial about? Then share what you wrote down in the comment box below.</p>
<p>Be well,</p>
<p><em><strong>Sean</strong></em></p>
<p><em><strong>P.S.</strong></em> The more you get real with your truths, the easier life becomes.</p>
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		<title>A Lack of&#160;Observation</title>
		<link>http://www.livingatcause.com/blog/465/lack-of-observation/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Feb 2010 03:14:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sean Stephenson</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ever wonder why you feel as though your life is out of control? As though you lack any real influence over the circumstances in your life and in turn you work yourself into a frantic mess. If this sounds familiar to you, it shouldn't be surprising. I've learned that the root cause behind it is... [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ever wonder why you feel as though your life is out of control? As though you lack any real influence over the circumstances in your life and in turn you work yourself into a frantic mess.</p>
<p>If this sounds familiar to you, it shouldn't be surprising. I've learned that the root cause behind it is...</p>
<p><a href="http://www.livingatcause.com/blog/465/lack-of-observation/"><em>Click here to view the embedded video.</em></a></p>
<p><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">a lack of observation</span></strong>. Ask yourself, how do I look to others right now? Would I want to be around me right now? By taking a step out of your Ego and looking at yourself from an "outsiders" perspective, you give yourself the ability to remove your Ego from the equation.</p>
<p>Those moments when we're totally off kilter are due to our internal circumstances of pain, worry and fear that put the blinders on and inhibit us from observing the Ego.</p>
<p>Our behavior is a direct reflection of our Ego acting out and the more we learn to observe the Ego, the better equipped we are for channeling our energy towards the outcomes we desire.</p>
<p>So if right now, you feel out of control, observe yourself, observe your behavior, and you will get control of your life I promise you.</p>
<p>Thanks for watching, I hope this exercise was of benefit to you and I wish you calmness in all areas of your life.</p>
<p>Peace and Love,</p>
<p><em><strong>Sean</strong></em> <img src='http://www.livingatcause.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p><em><strong>P.S.</strong></em> This is one of the most powerful techniques I use. Try this exercise out next time you're feeling flustered and then share your experiences with me below - I would so love to hear them.</p>
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		<title>It&#8217;s Time To&#160;Forgive</title>
		<link>http://www.livingatcause.com/blog/454/its-time-to-forgive/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Feb 2010 04:36:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sean Stephenson</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Emotional Pain]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Forgiveness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[get your own back]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[When we think of forgiveness, we tend to conjure up images of priests in confessionals, or begging our parents, friends, or others for forgiveness for our wrongdoings. We turn to others to grant us forgiveness for our mistakes. I'm going to challenge you right now and say that forgiveness can also be for yourself. So often we [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When we think of forgiveness, we tend to conjure up images of priests in confessionals, or begging our parents, friends, or others for forgiveness for our wrongdoings.</p>
<p>We turn to <span style="text-decoration: underline;">others</span> to grant us forgiveness for our mistakes. I'm going to challenge you right now and say that forgiveness can also be for <strong style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="text-decoration: none;">yourself</span></strong>. So often we look outwards to heal ourselves when really you <em style="font-style: italic;">can</em> give yourself the gift of forgiveness.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.livingatcause.com/blog/454/its-time-to-forgive/"><em>Click here to view the embedded video.</em></a></p>
<p>We're all human. We all make mistakes and sometimes we end up hurting others, or ourselves, unintentionally. Yet we need to learn to forgive and not let our pain weigh us down and burden us from living the life we deserve.</p>
<blockquote><p>Love yourself — accept yourself — forgive yourself — and be good to yourself, because without you the rest of us are without a source of many wonderful things."<br />
- Leo F. Buscaglia</p></blockquote>
<p>I challenge you to make a list of 3-5 things that you're really hard on yourself about or that you're really not letting go of and <strong>forgive yourself</strong> for them. By doing so I can guarantee that you will begin to be more at peace with yourself and others and open yourself up to the life and love that is rightfully yours.</p>
<p>Peace and Love,</p>
<p><strong><em>Sean</em></strong></p>
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<p><strong><em>P.S.</em></strong> On a slightly less serious note, I'm thrilled to share with you the new blog redesign that we just rolled out. Would love to hear your thoughts about it!</p>
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		<title>Where&#8217;s Your&#160;Pain?</title>
		<link>http://www.livingatcause.com/blog/61/wheres-your-pain/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Sep 2009 23:39:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sean Stephenson</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Health]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Pain]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[emotional issues]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Emotional Pain]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[This blog isn't just about me. It's about you too. I am really here to help you gain more understanding in your life. To do this, I need your help. I have a very important question I need to ask you... and please answer honestly. Please leave me a comment below and answer the following question. What [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This blog isn't <em>just</em> about me. It's about <strong>you</strong> too.</p>
<p>I am <em style="font-style: italic;">really</em> here to help you gain <strong style="font-weight: bold;">more understanding</strong> in your life. To do this, I need your help.</p>
<p>I have a very important question I need to ask you... and please answer honestly.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.livingatcause.com/blog/61/wheres-your-pain/"><em>Click here to view the embedded video.</em></a></p>
<p><strong>Please leave me a comment below and answer the following question.</strong></p>
<p><em>What is your greatest source of pain is in your life? Where do you feel stuck? </em></p>
<p>Is it your <strong>health</strong>? <strong>Wealth</strong>? <strong>Relationships</strong>?</p>
<p>What question that if you felt was answered would solve all your problems?</p>
<p>I am going to use your feedback to create programs that are <strong>specifically catered to your needs</strong> because I want to help you as much as possible.<br />
<em><strong>Sean</strong></em></p>
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