Comments on: Where’s Your Pain? http://www.livingatcause.com/blog/61/wheres-your-pain/ The Blog of Sean Stephenson Sun, 05 Sep 2010 10:43:21 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Nathalie de kruif http://www.livingatcause.com/blog/61/wheres-your-pain/#comment-7944 Nathalie de kruif Sun, 05 Sep 2010 10:43:21 +0000 http://iam.livingatcause.com/?p=61#comment-7944 Hi Sean First i find you very inspirational. My problem is my health [i dont take good care of myself] and wealth [i have always money ploblems] And relations [ i cant keep relationsships, have problem making them,i am insecure, i want to keep everybody happy and do anything for them but not for myself.] I know dat i am special but i make everything so hard for myself and i dont know how to stop. I am a woman, 33 years, alone with 4 children. I come from a family with generations of problems. I want to stop the circle of those problems. I love to help people and want make a difference in this world. I know that it is my purpose. I have many life experience at many different areas. I would try to do everything that can help me solf my problems. So i can help other people to. Can you help me achieve that. With Love Nathalie de Kruif Hi Sean

First i find you very inspirational.
My problem is my health [i dont take good care of myself] and wealth [i have always money ploblems]
And relations [ i cant keep relationsships, have problem making them,i am insecure, i want to keep everybody happy and do anything for them but not for myself.]
I know dat i am special but i make everything so hard for myself and i dont know how to stop.
I am a woman, 33 years, alone with 4 children.
I come from a family with generations of problems.
I want to stop the circle of those problems.
I love to help people and want make a difference in this world.
I know that it is my purpose.
I have many life experience at many different areas.
I would try to do everything that can help me solf my problems.
So i can help other people to.
Can you help me achieve that.

With Love Nathalie de Kruif

]]> By: jokha http://www.livingatcause.com/blog/61/wheres-your-pain/#comment-7760 jokha Sun, 29 Aug 2010 04:37:13 +0000 http://iam.livingatcause.com/?p=61#comment-7760 Thank you a lot Sean for all your efforts. The great pain I have is health as I have low back pain which does not want to go. The second thing is I am not sure what to do to improve my wealth. Thank you a lot Sean for all your efforts.

The great pain I have is health as I have low back pain which does not want to go. The second thing is I am not sure what to do to improve my wealth.

]]> By: Helena http://www.livingatcause.com/blog/61/wheres-your-pain/#comment-7221 Helena Wed, 18 Aug 2010 10:22:19 +0000 http://iam.livingatcause.com/?p=61#comment-7221 The greatest and most enduring source of pain in my life is that I wish i was dead. I don't belong anywhere. The greatest and most enduring source of pain in my life is that I wish i was dead. I don't belong anywhere.

]]> By: Betina http://www.livingatcause.com/blog/61/wheres-your-pain/#comment-3767 Betina Fri, 16 Jul 2010 14:48:39 +0000 http://iam.livingatcause.com/?p=61#comment-3767 Hi Sean, My mom is on vacation at my house and I introduced her to you and she watched many of your videos. She couldn't get enough of you. You are an absolute doll and look forward to all of your emails. Have a wonderful day and thank you for all that you do. Love, Betina & mom Hi Sean, My mom is on vacation at my house and I introduced her to you and she watched many of your videos. She couldn't get enough of you. You are an absolute doll and look forward to all of your emails. Have a wonderful day and thank you for all that you do. Love, Betina & mom

]]> By: john http://www.livingatcause.com/blog/61/wheres-your-pain/#comment-2137 john Sat, 10 Apr 2010 18:55:52 +0000 http://iam.livingatcause.com/?p=61#comment-2137 hi sean, i have been born like you with an unusual state. my arms are very short and i have no real hands just some fingers. perhaps you have heard of thalidomide, a drug my mother got when she was pregnant. in general i handeld this difficult situation quite well, although my parents could not support me as well as yours as they had no selfconfidence themselves. especially in my studies and work i was successful. but already when i was young i felt so totally worthless as a man. i had a lot of women as good friends but they were never attracted to me. when i was older i had some experiences with prostitutes but felt very uncomfortable with that. before i became 40 i found via a dating agency a lady who was ready to engage in a relation with me, but it turned out soon that she was only intersted in my money. i was earning quite good at that time. and the same situation happened again. this time i was even married for 2 years and the divorce costed me a lot of money. so i gave up all my hopes that i will ever be able to really attract a woman as i am nearly 50 in the meantime. but it makes me very sad that i have never experienced in my life a succesful relation with a woman and that i was not attractive enough as a man. hi sean,
i have been born like you with an unusual state. my arms are very short and i have no real hands just some fingers. perhaps you have heard of thalidomide, a drug my mother got when she was pregnant. in general i handeld this difficult situation quite well, although my parents could not support me as well as yours as they had no selfconfidence themselves. especially in my studies and work i was successful. but already when i was young i felt so totally worthless as a man. i had a lot of women as good friends but they were never attracted to me. when i was older i had some experiences with prostitutes but felt very uncomfortable with that. before i became 40 i found via a dating agency a lady who was ready to engage in a relation with me, but it turned out soon that she was only intersted in my money. i was earning quite good at that time. and the same situation happened again. this time i was even married for 2 years and the divorce costed me a lot of money. so i gave up all my hopes that i will ever be able to really attract a woman as i am nearly 50 in the meantime.
but it makes me very sad that i have never experienced in my life a succesful relation with a woman and that i was not attractive enough as a man.

]]> By: Danay http://www.livingatcause.com/blog/61/wheres-your-pain/#comment-1407 Danay Tue, 02 Mar 2010 17:37:09 +0000 http://iam.livingatcause.com/?p=61#comment-1407 PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE.... Where is it??? Where is the answer... I'm desperate. I don't want to lose the love of my life. I know he loves me and I don't want to hurt him anymore. Please... PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE.... Where is it??? Where is the answer... I'm desperate. I don't want to lose the love of my life. I know he loves me and I don't want to hurt him anymore. Please...

]]> By: Mags http://www.livingatcause.com/blog/61/wheres-your-pain/#comment-1380 Mags Fri, 26 Feb 2010 17:16:42 +0000 http://iam.livingatcause.com/?p=61#comment-1380 That was perfect advice Sean and I took it. By the time I turned 40 just before Christmas I was looking good and feelin positive. Now it's nearly March and I'm back sitting in the kitchen eating cake! I couldn't sustain the good but hard work in order to keep the feelings going. I've decided to crash and burn in the hope that I can be re-born from the ashes. Mags PS. Our WLW list is the same. lol That was perfect advice Sean and I took it. By the time I turned 40 just before Christmas I was looking good and feelin positive. Now it's nearly March and I'm back sitting in the kitchen eating cake!

I couldn't sustain the good but hard work in order to keep the feelings going.

I've decided to crash and burn in the hope that I can be re-born from the ashes.

Mags

PS. Our WLW list is the same. lol

]]> By: Tina http://www.livingatcause.com/blog/61/wheres-your-pain/#comment-1345 Tina Sun, 21 Feb 2010 02:31:16 +0000 http://iam.livingatcause.com/?p=61#comment-1345 Dear Sean, First I want to thank you for your video blogs. You are so sweet and sincere. I love you. Now to tell you my greatest source of pain is being in an unhappy marriage for more than 2 decades. I stayed in the marriage for the sake of my children. I would love to leave but am not able to do so because I can not find a job. To sell our home would be at a huge loss because the market bottomed out. We bought at nearly the peak. Also, I suffer from chronic fatigue syndrome. As I type this I am in great physical pain. There is more, but let's start with just that. Again, thank you for your blog. You are a sweetheart!!!! Dear Sean,

First I want to thank you for your video blogs. You are so sweet and sincere. I love you.

Now to tell you my greatest source of pain is being in an unhappy marriage for more than 2 decades. I stayed in the marriage for the sake of my children. I would love to leave but am not able to do so because I can not find a job. To sell our home would be at a huge loss because the market bottomed out. We bought at nearly the peak. Also, I suffer from chronic fatigue syndrome. As I type this I am in great physical pain. There is more, but let's start with just that.

Again, thank you for your blog. You are a sweetheart!!!!

]]> By: Joan http://www.livingatcause.com/blog/61/wheres-your-pain/#comment-982 Joan Tue, 26 Jan 2010 21:42:08 +0000 http://iam.livingatcause.com/?p=61#comment-982 Most ofmy pain at this point is that I cannot get myself moving on any of the goals or ideas I have. I am well equipped and fairly clear on 2 of my main goals, but just do not take the first step. One is that I do not have a structured, consistant spiritual discipline. I won't even sit & meditate for any amout of time. I listen and read, but don't do. I have a project that is always present in my heart and I know could be of great benefit to our small community and to myself also. I know what steps I need to take to get started, but not so much as one thing have I done except mention it to a couple of people. What is going on? I have been in a real struggle with depression and in my marriage, especially over the last 18 months. My husband & I have been able to start to make some progress lately. I feel like I am chasing my tail and I know it but cannot seem to straighten my course and head for any goal. I feel like I have no real purpose or direction. I have always had something I was working toward and have reached many of those goals. Why do I feel so lost and aimless? Thanks for a sounding board. Joan Most ofmy pain at this point is that I cannot get myself moving on any of the goals or ideas I have. I am well equipped and fairly clear on 2 of my main goals, but just do not take the first step. One is that I do not have a structured, consistant spiritual discipline. I won't even sit & meditate for any amout of time. I listen and read, but don't do.
I have a project that is always present in my heart and I know could be of great benefit to our small community and to myself also. I know what steps I need to take to get started, but not so much as one thing have I done except mention it to a couple of people.
What is going on?
I have been in a real struggle with depression and in my marriage, especially over the last 18 months. My husband & I have been able to start to make some progress lately.
I feel like I am chasing my tail and I know it but cannot seem to straighten my course and head for any goal. I feel like I have no real purpose or direction. I have always had something I was working toward and have reached many of those goals. Why do I feel so lost and aimless?
Thanks for a sounding board.
Joan

]]> By: chris tidman http://www.livingatcause.com/blog/61/wheres-your-pain/#comment-946 chris tidman Mon, 18 Jan 2010 13:19:21 +0000 http://iam.livingatcause.com/?p=61#comment-946 Thank you Sean. That is all I needed today. I am pleased with how you are using this tool to change the world. Best wishes, and if you get stuck, the answer is 42 Thank you Sean.

That is all I needed today. I am pleased with how you are using this tool to change the world.

Best wishes, and if you get stuck, the answer is 42

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